Heart of Go(l)d V

Posted by Dave Stone

1 Samuel 17:20-37

1. Do you agree with the principle: “a heart like God’s is not discouraged?” Why or why not?
(Dave) I find focusing on the Gospel (I’ve been redeemed!) helps me when I feel discouraged. I would tend to agree. It is clear that many Psalms were written from a discouraging point, yet each ends with hope in God (Psalm 42-44, I think). Post Christ’s resurrection we see Paul’s hope in God remain no matter his circumstances (thorn in flesh, shipwreck, persecution, etc.).
(Kelli) I’m not sure. I don’t think God is discouraged. But I do think Jesus was discouraged. I think Jesus prayed when He was discouraged.

2. Sometimes our family, instead of being a source of encouragement, can be a source of discouragement. Have you experienced this in your life? How might you be a source of encouragement in your family?
(Kelli) I learned a long time ago that I set the emotional thermometer in my home…from when I greet the kids when they wake up. It sets a mood…a disposition.

3. If you are experiencing discouragement in your work environment (from managers, co-workers, etc.), how might you handle it righteously?
Remember that the Lord is allowing it. Remember that you have a purpose to make Christ known in your workplace. (Kelli) …and shut my mouth! unless it’s going to edify.

4. As a group, brainstorm what a person can do in a discouraging situation to focus on the Lord and not the giant (”marble”). How are humility and not being discouraged connected?
Practically, spiritual disciplines. Spend time in the Word, in prayer, keep walking by faith. There may be relief, there may not. Seek the Lord continually. Hope in God, sing praises to Him, focus on the character of God, remember what God has done. Humility and not being discouraged are connected in that the focus is the same for both. Their focus is on the Lord, not self.

5. We all face discouragement from time to time. Are you facing it right now? If so, share with your group. What idea(s) from question #4, can you begin practicing today to keep your focus on the Lord in the midst of this discouraging time? Pray for each other.
This question gives you the opportunity to minister meaningfully to your group or family.

Gospel in Action: Here are four starter questions to begin talking about Jesus with other people. Remember to listen sincerely.

1. How are you doing today?
2. What is your story? Tell me about yourself.
3. Is going to church part of your weekly routine? Why is that?
4. Have you ever felt close to God? What happened?